Friday, August 29, 2008

August 29, 2008

It's Friday of Labor Day weekend. Ahhhh.....

This turned out to be one of my days off this week since I had to be home to welcome the cable guy (they actually came during the 'appointment window' they promised - even in NYC!!!) My cable converter box was possessed this week. It kept turning itself off and trying to reboot every few minutes. I pushed the power button to turn it off and that didn't work, it was still turning itself on and off and trying to reboot. I finally had to unplug it from the wall!

As frustrating as that was, it reminded me of how pesky the enemy can be in distracting me with seemingly small glitches. Like that cable box, sometimes we have to 'un-attach' ourselves from the power source of evil. Anything that is not of God in our lives is a way for the enemy to sneak into our minds and hearts. Even distant relationships with people not walking in God's light need to be evaluated. It may seem harmless, but it's an open door. Sometimes it only takes a crack for evil to sneak in. I'm glad the cable guy could fix my problem with the dysfunctional converter box. I'm even more glad that God is always standing by to change out my wants and thoughts and anything else that is not of Him, and to give me a clear connection to His input!

I finished reading a book last week titled "One Month to Live" and it was really enlightening to me. It is one of the few books I have ever really highlighted in as I was reading (at least one that wasn't part of a study or something). Anyway, I was expecting it to just be a reminder to get my life in order by doing things like putting God first, loving people more, de-cluttering my life, etc. The book is a very easy read and is basic in the way it presents ideas. It really gave me so much more than I expected. I recommend this book highly to Everyone. I found its insights on relationships, how I handle problems, how to stay connected to God better, how to serve people more effectively and how to live a bolder life in His name. I'll probably re-read it many times. I pray for everyone to give their life to God so that they can live as boldly as they are created to be for His purpose.

Isn't technology wonderful? (I say that half sarcastically) I have drug my feet in many ways when it comes to getting too involved with technology. I guess I'm afraid it will take the place of one-on-one human contact or something. But I have to say that being able to share with so many people at once through blogs, email and even facebook, has made it easier on me than I imagined.

This week I was blessed to receive a new phone. One of my dear church partners offered to supply this for me. My old cell was having to be charged twice a day. That is aggravating enough in itself, but here where you are in 'transit' more than you are near a computer, or even available electrical outlets, it can be debilitating at times! My new blessing is a Blackberry Curve phone (now on sale for only $99) on which I can not only handle phone calls (with a longer life battery than my old phone), but I can receive emails right to my phone. I always thought that the email thing was a little over the top for a cell phone, but I cannot believe how much it has helped me in staying connected while commuting around the city. I'm very thankful for the gift and for how much of a help it is for my work here in NYC.

Don't forget that you can always reach me via cell phone, and my two email addresses. You can check up on me and the Parable ministry at this blog, Parablechurch.com and parablemission.blogspot.com. And don't ever hesitate to contact me with any questions or concerns about the ministry God has brought me to here in NYC.

Someone sent me a little story/poem kind of thing that asks the question what if we treated our Bibles as we do our cell phones. I have seen this before, but it is really a good reminder to seek being connected to God and His Word as much as we try to be connected to each other and the world. As handy as a cell phone is, God is always on the line, quicker to answer, and there's never a busy signal! (I know, that's cheesy!)

I pray you all have a wonderful holiday weekend. Summer is almost over. I love fall, but am anxious about the bleakness that sometimes comes with winter. Last winter was especially challenging for me and I didn't even realize how 'gray' I felt until spring was here and it was like a huge blanket coming off. I know this winter will be much better because a lot of the oppressive things from last year are gone, but I do need your prayers to keep me lifted up through the 'gray' days.

The seasons go by so fast, as do the seasons in our lives. I'm striving to make my life simpler so that I can enjoy the walk with my God and experience all He has planned for my days. Thinking about fall weather coming in about a month, I'm picturing myself walking through Central Park with thousands of leaves bursting in color and just strolling along talking with God. I promise to send you pictures of the leaves. (You'll have to look at God for yourselves)

Thank you for your faithful love and prayers and support as I live and serve here with Parable in NYC. Blessings!!!

Saturday, August 23, 2008

August 23, 2008 (pics)

What a beautiful day this has been! I did a little housework and ran to the library this morning. Then I was blessed with 4 hours of walking around the lower half of Central Park. It was great, sunny weather and low 80 temps. It was a great day to be out and about. I didn't realize until I got home that I had taken over 100 pics!

When I first walked into the park at Columbus Circle, I saw some people gathered for a rally/protest. There weren't many people by New York standards, but I thought I would check it out anyway. There was a girl wearing feathered angel wings and giving a long winded speech about some kind of equality. After listening for a few moments and seeing a poster, I realized that they were furthering the cause for "freedom to be topless". They said if women weren't allowed to go topless in the city, then men should be required to always wear shirts. I'll let you know if they make any changes to city laws - ha!

I walked past the Dairy;stopped by the Chess/Checkers house, where you can sit and play at tables along the outside veranda;
many different types of playgrounds; I rode the carousel; visited the Balto statue; walked along the Mall (a wide walkway that is featured in many movies); enjoyed the views at Bethesda Terrace; watched the boats (and turtles) at the Boathouse; watched the remote control boats at the Water Conservatory; watched kids climb all over the Alice in Wonderland statue; looked at Cleopatra's Needle (a centuries old statue by the Met); went by the Great Lawn; the Delacorte Theatre (where they have Shakespear in the Park); climbed up the tower at Belvedeer Castle; saw tons of people sunning at the Sheep Meadow; watched people play softball, volleyball and beach volleyball and climb the cool rock structures all over the park; enjoyed a hotdog from a vendor; watched numerous horse drawn carriages and pedicabs giving tours; dodged many joggers, roller bladers and bicyclists; heard many different languages being spoken and just plain people-watched. It was a fine day! Some other day off I would like to visit the zoo and explore the other half of the park.

Here are some pics of the things I've described above.




















































There are street performers and musicians all over New York City. It was so pleasant to walk from one place to another in the park and hear different types of music. This is just a few of the performers I ran across.




























I spent a lot of time talking with the Lord today. He really blessed me with beautiful sun, comfortable weather, health to walk all afternoon, eyes to see the beauty, ears to hear the laughter of kids and the sounds of nature, and a peace that can only come from Him.


Friday, August 22, 2008

Sharing Encouragement to Keep Serving

Yesterday evening, a group of people gathered for an appreciation dinner at my home church, FBC Rogers AR. The purpose of the gathering was to encourage and thank the volunteers who work at the River of Life Medical Clinic that is sponsored by FBCR. I was privileged to get to work with that group from the conception of the clinic in 2000 until the time that I moved to NYC.

It was heart-warming to think of all the people gathered in a relaxed setting and enjoying each other's company. That's not the atmosphere at the bi-monthly clinics, where it's so busy that fellow volunteers don't get much time to interact with each other.

As I thought about the dinner and fellowship time, I grew homesick for these people and wanted them to know that I was there with them in spirit. I sat down and wrote a letter of love and encouragement to them that was read at the dinner. I feel impressed by God to share this letter here, on my blog, in hopes that it is an encouragement to others. I pray that if you are currently serving others that you feel uplifted and energized. I pray that if you have not yet determined God's call on your life, that this may be nudge you need to start that dialogue with Him.


Dear Medical Clinic Family,

Oh, how I wish I was there tonight to visit with all of you and grab some much needed hugs! I’ll be praying for you all and I always think of you on Thursdays, whether it’s clinic night or not.

Thank you for being faithful to that wonderful ministry. I know it can be frustrating at times and tiring and draining. A lot of the ministry we do here is just like that and I know how easy it is to think about giving it up. But just when the wind is out of my sails, God brings a cool breeze through the encounter, no matter how brief, with someone thankful for my presence and participation in whatever ministry I’m helping with at the time. I pray that you receive that same blessing just when you need it most.

Life here in the city is hard, tiring, sweaty, dirty, overwhelming and expensive! I wonder sometimes what kind of an impact little ole me can make on a city this big and diverse. I remember feeling the same way at the clinic sometimes. There are so many people in need and just a handful there to help. It seems like a daunting task sometimes.

But when looking at it through God’s eyes, our service is just a small part of His overall plan for His people of the world. He has much more to keep up with than we do. He doesn’t expect us to handle it all. He just asks that we be obedient to the small part He is asking us to perform. And He equips us with everything we need to get through it. When we take the ‘me’ out of the situation, it leaves a lot more room for Him to fill in the love and energy that He is sending our way.

I pray that as you are all gathered tonight, you feel the common bond of your collective calling to help ‘even the least of these’ in your opportunity of service.

This past 16 months of serving in NYC has grown me so much in my walk with Him, and most of it has been hard lessons to learn. Every month I wonder if there will be enough money to pay the rent. Some weeks I can buy groceries, and other weeks I eat peanut butter and Hamburger Helper without the meat. But you know what? I still get fed and I still have the energy to get up every morning to walk 1 ½ miles to work. And I have never felt more blessed to be alive or more close to Him than now. Every day is not filled with joy. But every day is filled with looking to Him for everything. I’m thankful that I don’t have the financial security I sometimes long for, because then I would take it for granted. I’m glad that there is no time for a lot of extra curricular activities and demands on my time, because I would be distracted by all that. I look forward to the encounters He sends my way.

I’ve grown bolder in my walk with Him and in wanting to share these details of what He is to me with other people. I love the simplicity of my life right now. I pray that if God is calling you to simplify your lives in any way, that you heed that call. He deserves all the time we can give Him. Time is one of His gifts to us anyway. He deserves to tell us how to use it.

When interacting with the clients at the clinic, don’t just be aware of what they don’t have (medical insurance, money for doctors or medicine, financial security), please notice what many of them do have – a simple life, where the introduction to our God has room to fit in easily. Don’t miss those opportunities to share with them. And don’t miss the message God is laying on your heart at times like that.

Well, lately I’ve been praying for God to give me clarity of mind and heart to speak His words and I think my cup has just runneth over for today!

I send my love and blessings to you.
I keep you in my prayers. I ask for strength, energy, persistence, love, gratitude and a longing for His direction in your lives.

Thank you for being faithful to the River of Life Medical Clinic. How sweet that name is!

Have a good time tonight and know that I miss you all very much.

May God be pleased by all the works of our hands.
May He be glorified by the words from our mouths.
May His love be shared by the actions in our lives.

He is Love, He is worthy, He is God.

Love,
Vickie

Thursday, August 14, 2008

August 14, 2008

It's Thursday evening and I'm sitting here slowly (and sometimes painfully) learning how to use Facebook. It's been interesting to see how many people are on it that I know. I have to admit that it will be easier to keep up with many people at the same time. Maybe I'll get proficient with communication some day.

It's been an interesting week so far. My Stepfather, Gary, had a second open heart surgery yesterday. He had a quadruple bypass surgery 4 years ago. He was having some more blockage and the doctors were running tests on Tuesday. They determined that he needed another bypass surgery and scheduled it for next week. He started having some complications from the testing and they kept him overnight. Early yesterday morning he started having some heart distress and the doctors ended up doing a double bypass surgery yesterday afternoon.

I sent out emails to my prayer partners (over 300 people) and prayers started going heavenward immediately. The doctors were expecting the surgery to be more complicated than before and for Gary to have a hard recovery. Through prayer, God allowed the surgery to go very well and Gary is already ahead of schedule with his recovery after just 24 hours. The doctors and my family are all surprised by the good news. I'm excited, thankful and full of praise for the blessings God has given us this week.

It was hard to be here in NYC while my family was going through this situation in Indiana. The prayers and emails directed to me really helped me to have peace. I'm so thankful for Christ-loving, prayer trusting friends.

I'm asking everyone to keep Gary and Mom and the rest of my family in their prayers throughout his recovery; asking for physical, emotional and spiritual strength. Thankful for the chance to spend more time together to love and to seek God and walk closely with Him.

It's hard to believe that it's mid-August already. Time is truly flying by. I pray for myself and all of you to take the time to spend quiet moments with God. And to not miss any opportunity to be with loved ones and friends.

I'm enjoying having the time to get out meet new people around the city. And new people are coming into the Space each week. There are so many people, how does God keep up with us all? He's amazing, isn't He?

Until next time... blessings!

Sunday, August 10, 2008

August 10, 2008

It's Sunday afternoon and I'm in the Space getting a little work done before our Theatre renters come in. (It's my turn to 'sit the space'.) Then we will have Church at 7pm. It's nice and quiet and I love getting time like this to get things done before the commotion of daily life here starts up again.

I wasn't sure I would like it when we switched to Sunday evening service instead of Sunday morning (must be the Southern Baptist in me). Actually, I like getting things taken care of early in the day and having the evening to relax at home. But I have loved having evening services instead. Life here is soooo hectic and busy. Saturdays are usually just another work day. Getting to have quiet time at home on Sunday morning is such a gift. Also, it's the best time to catch up with people here in NYC. They usually have Sunday afternoon and evenings free (at least more free than the rest of the week). Also, the overall feeling of the worship service feels more relaxed, inviting and intentional. People usually start showing up an hour or so before hand and really enjoy hanging out and catching up with one another. The the service time usually goes 2-2 1/2 hours long. We have to make a conscious effort to stop. Everyone just likes being here and sharing and discussing God, His Word and how it applies to our lives. Sometimes we have music, sometimes we have other types of worship exercises. It's not your traditional, Bible-belt type of service. But it IS a very heart-felt time of joining together in worshiping our God. I'm very blessed to be a part of it. I usually go home after service (after all it's past 9pm and I need my beauty sleep!), but a lot of the people go out to eat and hang out a little more. It's very much a loving community of Believers. We have had some new visitors lately and it's wonderful to see how inviting and loving our church family has become. I'm loving Sunday nights!!!

We had another team in this past Saturday. They are from Pastor Mike's home church (House of the Rock Family Church in PA) and they drove over for the day. God blessed us with a beautiful day to be outside. The team did a lot of prayer walking throughout Hell's Kitchen, Clinton, Midtown, Times Square, and Central Park. A few of the Project Find locations were visited and prayed for, as well as some Police Precincts and Firehouses. It was a pretty low-key day as far as manual labor (the Space was booked with renters and most of the streets we walked down were actually pretty clean!) so spent a lot of time talking about NYC and the people here and praying for the city. A team from this church was here last December and plans to come back this December, also. They have sent 3 weekend construction type teams over this past month. We expect to see a lot of teams from them and are excited to share this work with them.

A huge portion of our church family are out of town for August. (A lot of NYC goes out of the city for the summer, too.) Please keep everyone traveling in your prayers for safety (and for lower gas prices!). It's a quiet month to relax, reflect and work on some cerebral projects. Pray we don't squander that blessing of time!

I was thinking of some funny things that happened over July. We had 5 teams in during the month. Brittani stayed with me most of that time. Besides the interesting things that happened at the apartment, we had one adult from the LA team get stuck in the elevator for an hour while the building people called the elevator company in Queens to come and help. (I'm thankful it wasn't one of the kids.) The team from NC encountered a large rat in the subway. Now, it's not unusual to see rats running all over the tracks. This particular rat ran across the platform and across one of the girls' feet. Of course she screamed, and one of the manly men admitted to screaming like a little girl. I'm sure that lots of other funny stuff happens to teams, but I don't always hear about them. We are always having weird stuff happen to us here at the church. Such is life in NYC...

I spent 2 days in the last 2 weeks going to some Red Cross classes. There is a really nice Red Cross facility between the Space and my apartment (which by NYC terms is like next door!). I took CPR and First Aid. I had the same instructor for both classes. His name is Reggie and he was a hoot. I did learn a lot and refreshed on skills that I had forgotten. It was fun to meet new people in the classes, too.

I just had dinner from one of my favorite restaurants (a hole in the wall, really) down the street. Here, most of the restaurants deliver (even McDonalds) and I have the phone number for 'Golden Chicken' memorized. All I have to do is tell them my address here at the Space and they tell me what my standing order is. Do you think I eat there too much??? Also, there is a Subway sandwich restaurant about a block away. One of the guys in there recognizes me now, too. I think I need to expand my horizons a little!

I allow myself one meal out a day. The rest of the time I eat from home. It's hard to do some days with my crazy schedule, but I'm sure enjoying all the goodies that people have sent me in the care packages. (Did you know that Hamburger Helper makes a hashbrown dish? yummy!) I use ground turkey instead of hamburger, and my local market sometimes has it on sale. That's when I know it's a hamburger helper week! The other weeks I enjoy rice-a-roni and pasta mixes. It is such a blessing to have stuff to cook for free! Thanks to you all!!!

It's been raining off and on over the past week. One afternoon I was sitting in Central Park (enjoying a small piece of Jr's cheesecake and reading a book) and it was beautifully sunny. 15 minutes later it was a downpour! Luckily, I was only 5-6 blocks from home, so I took off walking (and getting mighty soaked! thank goodness for my short, wash and wear hair!). By the time I got home it was sunny again! I was really thankful that it was sunny all day Saturday when the team was here. Today and for the next few days, it will be rainy off and on. Some of the 'suburbs' in the boroughs are getting really bad storms and winds. Manhattan seems to just get tons of rain.

Well, I had better get a little more work done while it's still quiet. Just wanted to share some thoughts while I had the chance.

God is good and always walking beside me. When I start running out of steam, He is there to keep pushing me forward. I just have to learn how not to trip!

Blessings!